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Romantic - What defines a Romantic
Person?
Being romantic is an ideal that
is hard to accurately define. Many greeting card
companies tell us that "Being Romantic is showing you care".
Ok, I admit it sounds good to start with, but draping
your coat over a puddle and asking if she remembered to brush
her teeth are both actions that show you care,
they definitely rate differently on the romance scale. To put it
simply, for a guy to be romantic he has to know
"What a woman wants to hear, see, feel, and hope for".
Yes, romantic ideals pivot around her. Men aren't romantic, and if you're
a man, that's why you need this guide to
be romantic.
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Romantic Ideas
- Starting at the top and working our way
down. Be romantic.
Romantic Ideas
Some things were made to be romantic - hearts are incredibly romantic. This
is very useful, because you can pile things upon
your love, winning romantic points without expending a lot of
effort or thought. The romantic trick is to know what is romantic. A
basic guideline is - if it's cool, it's not romantic. For
example, high powered rifles are not romantic. Science
fiction is not romantic. DVD players are not romantic unless
they're playing Sleepless In Seattle, Ghost or Beaches.
Romantic Ideas - But
the following things are romantic so use them and
reap
the rewards in ways you have only dreamed of.
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Romantic Ideas - Cute and Cuddly Things are Romantic
Teddy bears - romantic. Puppies - romantic. Cupids - romantic.
Those pictures where two children exhibit an unrealistic affection for
each other and only thing in color are the roses
is romantic.
Be Romantic! Cute is romantic
and generally, small things are cute. Travel size shampoo, toothpaste, and so
on is seen as cute and so can also trigger
a romantic response in her. Find a store that sells
doll house stuff, and your supply of cute and romantic things is
limitless.
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For a Romantic Mood try Low Lighting
Romantic Ideas - Candles are romantic. Sunrises and sunsets - romantic. Any kind
of low, soft light is romantic. Remember, dinner dates after dark
are more romantic than lunch dates. Open the curtains
on a romantic sunset and
light some candles, and you might even get away with
watching some football during dinner.
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Romantic Red
Red is romantic. Red is the color of passion.
Red roses mean, "I love you and I want
you". Pink means "I love you". Yellow mean, "Let's just be
friends," which can also mean "You are irritating, and I
want to see other people", so not very romantic. To be romantic, get
her red roses, chocolates in a red box, red
ribbons, balloons, teddy bears, and red tickets to the World Series, and
she'll be under your spell.
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Romantic Ideas - Music
Background music is romantic, but not just any music is
romantic. For music to be romantic, it must be too soft to
hear. Also, it may not be lively or funny or good. Elevator
music is great for a romantic background sound.
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Romantic Ideas
- Chocolates
Chocolates are romantic on so
many different levels. They say - "eat this box of
chocolate, gain double your dress size but I will still love
you for who you are". Romantic ideas don't necessarily have
to be totally true - it's the massage they convey that counts. They are also romantic
because of a little chemical reaction that happens in 95%
of all womens brains when they eat chocolates. Chocolates make them "feel
good sexually". They put her in the right frame of mind and
mood for a romantic evening and possibly more sensual pursuits latter. For a
romantic evening, buy her a red box of chocolates shaped like
a heart, and get her to have one or two
before you go out. On the way to diner her romantic
thoughts and feelings will be racing and, if you play it cool and
romantic, you will both have a night to remember.
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Romantic Curls
Flair is romantic. Whenever you get her
a greeting card, get one of the ones with all the curly
pink scribbles on it. When you write her letters, make
the tails of the 'g's and 'y's really long and
the loops in the 'd's and 'b's and 'p's really
big. Very romantic
Romantic Ideas in a nutshell - Based on above,
the most romantic thing in the universe is simply a small
red romantic candle made out of chocolate, shaped like a teddy
bear holding a heart with pink scribbles that plays a tune
when you tickle it's tummy. Toss her one of these little
suckers at sunset on your way to a night out with the boys,
and you'll have it made. We are joking of course. Being
romantic is serious. A little romantic behavior goes a long
way in her eyes and in her heart. Romantic ideas can melt the
coldest of moods and lead to many wonderful facets of an
unexplored relationship - Romantic Love - Romantic Naughtiness
- Romantic Risque - Romantic Sensual - Romantic Erotic -
Romantic Fantasy...
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Romantic Ideas -
Impracticality
Practical things - not
romantic. Think about it, blenders, toasters and cars are all
practical but not romantic. The soft toy you get her that sits
on her dresser behind her makeup, with no practical use other
than to collect dust, melts her heart the moment she sees it, is
very romantic..
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Romantic Ideas - Remembering Birthdays and Anniversaries
Remembering her birthday and your anniversary isn't so much
romantic as it is a stay of execution. One day
you will forget, and when you do, you'll find out
how not romantic cold shoulders can be. Romantic ideas - Find
someone whose birthday is on Christmas, and marry her New Year's Day. Nobody
forgets those days.
- Romantic Ideas
- Style
Being "debonair" is the ultimate romantic style. Be as much like
James Bond as you
can, apart from compulsive gambling,
chain smoking, and killing people
parts. Be elegant, humble, refined, thoughtful, compassionate, spontaneous, graceful,
polite, entertaining, discreet and sensitive. | |
